Confidence...Is It You?
I stumbled across a great book awhile ago. The title, " Confidence Is You" really caught my attention. It really made me stop and think about confidence. Did I have any? What was I most confident about? Where was I least confident? How could I build more confidence? It also made me think about people that I know that had success in various areas of life. There is one young woman that I know that has always been successful in relationships. The guy she wanted always wanted her back. She never had to settle. Her motto was, " making me happy is what makes him happy". Now, back then, when she would repeat this motto to me I thought it was very ballsy and arrogant of her. But, now I understand that it was just full confidence that she deserved whatever it was that she desired, and she got it. It was a great wow moment for me.
I started thinking about how much confidence you need in yourself to attract such scenarios in your life. It made me realize that confidence is what determines if you fail ( in manifesting your desires) or if you succeed. I was really blown away by this realization. Confidence, is that built in faith factor, that keeps you going when things seem to be so dark and nonexistent. A lot of the law of attraction teachers talk about faith, but what they are really talking about is confidence. They want you to believe in your worthiness. They want you to believe that whatever you desire can be yours. They want you to believe that your being happy makes the universe happy. Once you believe these things, and you can't be swayed in your belief the world is yours for the taking.
A lot of people stumble when it comes to confidence. I know I did for a very long time. I listened to the doubts, fears and limitations of others, and it kept me from realizing my dreams. When I realized that I could turn that doubt around, I set on focusing on being more confident. I started telling myself that I am worthy of all my desires without any exceptions or concessions. I am fully confident that everyone is worthy of all of their desires. Tell me...do you struggle with confidence?